
I did some facebook quiz and was told that i'd get married 8 YEARS FROM NOW. some may or may not believe these kinda things. and i myself fall into the category of not believing such things. however, i must admit that getting married 8 years from now is my ideal age (: then again, we have to look at career development and finances, and most importantly, whether i'm ready to give up my frivolous lifestyle to settle down with one man and MAYBE some children for the rest of my life.
right now maybe the only person i know that's my age as IS sure of who he wants to marry, is mel. you've earned all my respect man. its hard to make decisions right now and to be absolutely sure of who you want to marry when you're just 19 years old. one of the main reasons why i can't is because i'm scared.
SCARED that i make the wrong decision at the wrong time and choose the wrong person at the wrong time. divorce rates shooting up and watching even catholics file for divorce is really scary and sad. for those who aren't sure about catholic "rules" is that no one will encourage you to resort to divorce for any reason except abuse la. and the people i know who are filing for divorce aren't being abused.
it hits you the most when you find out that this happens to someone close to you, a relative. it just breaks my heart to see these people WAITING for the right time to explode and then slap the divorce papers right in front of their spouse.
seeing all these happen, i don't want to make the same mistake during my lifetime. and worst of all, make the wrong decision. Lord, please bless the world and me. Bless us with happy marriages.
i'm not trying to scare the people who are absolutely sure right now, but i'm more of like acknowledging their courage. mel, you're strong. keep it up!
damn it, WHY does it have to happen now!!
hypnotized the marionette;